Memories for A.J.

From: DAN BAUMGARTEN AND TINA ERKER

BARLOW FAMILY.
DAN AND I READ THE OBIT IN THE TIMES RECORD, WE SEND OUR SYMPATHY. DOING JAN AND ARDEN'S PAYROLL SERVICES FOR STATE FARM THRU H R BLOCK WE HAD A GREAT EXPERIENCE WORKING FOR YOU TWO. ARDEN IS A GREAT AND SPECIAL PERSON. HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. JAN AND FAMILY OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. DAN AND TINA ARE THINKING OF YOU ALL IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. WE LOVE YOU ALL
SINCERELY
DAN BAUMGARTEN
TINA ERKER
H R BLOCK
VALLEY CITY, ND

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From: Sharon Nilles

Jan,
I was sorry to hear of AJ's passing. It was wonderful to see both of you last spring. Take care and you and the girls are in my thoughts and prayers

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From: Bonnie Rockwood

May he finally rest in peace. My thoughts are with Jan, Amy and Beth.

Bonnie

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From: Dianne Korf

My thoughts and Prayers are with you.

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From: Keith & Jean Witt

Our sympathies to Jan and her family. AJ was such a great person to know and his smile will be missed.
Keith and Jean Witt

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From: Don & Pat Malec

Had many good talks with AJ when at State Farm in Valley City. When my Mother (Catherine) worked there with him she always had good things to say about AJ. Our sympathy to your families at this time of sorrow.

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From: Pat and Allen Nielson

Hi Jan, just looking at the TR and see Arden has passed away. We want to send our sympathy to you and your family. We also send pur prayers and hope that God's love is upholding all oof you. Gods Blessings,
Pat and Allen

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From: Merle & Donna Lee

We only knew Arden for a short while, but we enjoyed our times that we all got togeather.Arden is now in his home where he will experience no pain. He was such a jolly person he was a joy to be around.

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From: Harold

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sorry I can't make the service but Herman's funeral is at 11 that same AM.
Jan if you get down this way please stop for coffee or just to say hello.
Harold

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From: Dennis Laskowski

To Jan Barlow & Family,

I was so sorry to hear of Arden's passing. He and I went back to the days of country school, and we shared many fine experiences together while growing up.

My sympathy is extended to you, Jan, and to your family.

Sincerely,

Dennis

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From: Kaye (Davies) Belzer

Dear Jan and Family, I was shocked to read of Arden's death. You and your family will
be in our thoughts and prayers
during this difficult time.

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From: Phil JOhnson

My first memories are of a red-haired farm kid who joined me as a freshman at MOdel High School. I was very impressed with the fact that he drove a jeep pickup back and forth to school. I enjoyed several rides in that pickup, including spinouts on the winter ice. From that start a friendship of more than fifty years followed.

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From: DBGR Thrift Store Family

Jan & Family,

AJ will be soooo missed by all of us here at the store. We had some happy times with you and AJ, (Pops)!
AJ was always such a Gentleman and willing to help with anything.
We will miss him terribly.
Dear AJ,
Rest in the Lord and we'll all get together again for laughs. You put a smile on our face.
The Gang at the Store.
See you soon Jan.

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From: Duane and Sharon Dokken

Family of Arden,
We want you to know that we share in your sorrow and rejoice in the victory in Jesus Christ. May God give you comfort in this time of sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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From: Mark & Diane Butz

Dear Jan & family,
So sorry to hear about A.J.,
he was a great guy and we enjoyed knowing him for many,many years. So glad we got to see you both at the last reunion. Fond memories will remain with everyone who know him.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Mark & Diane

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From: Perky Schoenhals

Jan & family,

My deepest sympathy & prayers to you in the loss of your husband and dad.

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From: Tracey Compson

I was very sadened in hearing of AJ's passing. I wish I would have been able to see him and Jan more in the past years since they left Valley City. Jan my thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls and I will see you at the service.

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From: Debbie Valderrama

Dear Jan and family,

I know it's been years since I've seen you, but I had a wonderful time reacquainting with Arden in Drake at Uncle Freddie's funeral. He was so full of life and so happy. I told him that I had recently reread the newspaper article surrounding your marriage license. We had a good laugh about it. I believe I may have sent a copy.

My mom (Eva) always used to say that she could remember Arden's age because he was 10 years younger than she.

I pray for your comfort at this time. Please know that while we are far away, we are with you all in thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Cousin Debbie

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From: Melanie Johnson

Jan you and AJ have been such a blessing. I am sorry to hear of his passing. It will not be the same at the store with out both of you helping us. Besides the work we had many good times at the thrift store with both of you. He was always willing to help. I am sending hugs and prayers to you family.

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From: Carol Creed Dick

Janice. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during these difficult days. I know you will treasure all the good memories as time heals. Carol

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From: Charlotte and Rick Jorissen

Jan and family:

I saw surprised to see Arden's obituary and picture in the TR. I thought about the years we worked at Norwest Bank. He always had a smile on his face and was a pleasure to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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From: Marlene Hartzell

Jan: I was surprised to read of AJ's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult days.

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From: Bonnie G Ceroll

Jan and Family: So sorry to hear about AJ. Jan, I hope you remember me. AJ proudly showed me around your office in Valley City showing me his collections. He was such a gentleman and had a sweet smile. You, of course are the person to teach me that the color of your hair changes - just depend on which box you pick up!! Love and prayers to you and your family.

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From: Dawn Mathias & VC Rotary Club

We have really missed AJ the past few years. I can still hear his laugh. We met today and shared some AJ stories. He was a wonderful guy, always with a smile on his face. Jan, please take care of yourself, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

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From: Pat @ Jim Miller

Sorry to hear about Arden. We are thinking of you. Jim and Pat

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From: Deb Aune Wacha

Jan and Family

I am so sorry to hear of A.J.'s passing. We are thinking of you at this time. Wish I could have been closer to be of some help and return the gesture that you both paid us when mom was sick and passed.

I wonder what A.J. and Mom are doing up in heaven. More than likely enjoying each other's company.

Deb Aune Wacha

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From: Terry and Gloria Glandt

Jan, so sorry to hear of Ardens passing...I know there is never a good time but Time does heal..just wanted to let you know your Valley City friends are thinking of you....

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From: James Glaze

Arden was a classmate of mine at Minot Model. Though many years have passed since that time, I fondly recall the great times that we shared including numerous escapades in which Arden, with his well tuned Chevy (or was it a Ford?) was crucial to our mobility (few of us had cars in high school). Perhaps what I remember most, however, was just what a nice person he was-one who never expressed an ill feeling about others. Mary Lou, my wife, knew Arden at Minot State College and she has expressed the same feelings about him. When attending our class reunions, both of us looked forward to becoming re-acquainted with Arden and his wife Janice. Arden will be missed by his many friends.

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From: David and Noreen

We were so sorry to read in the TR about AJ's death. He was a kind, gentle man... We will miss his friendship and continue to cherish yours.

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