Joseph A. Abernathey 1985 - 2009

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Joseph A. Abernathey, 24, Minot, ND, formerly of Bottineau, ND, died Sunday, March 15, 2009, at his home.

Joseph Andre' Abernathey was born March 14, 1985, a son of Wayde and Sandra (Ihli) Abernathey, in Minot, ND. He attended Mohall and Bottineau public schools and graduated from Raleigh High School in 2003.

Joe then attended the Minot Job Corps and had worked in the Minot area for various businesses, including the Minot Daily News and the Recycling Center. He also worked in security, construction and as a cab dispatcher.

He enjoyed sports, riding motorcycles, snowmobiling, mudding with his dad, playing pool and darts, and reading Western novels. Most of all, he enjoyed spending time with his family.

Joe was a spirited child from the day of his conception. As a child his parents and family members were constantly kept on their toes. As a teenager, he tried our patience, but always found love. As a young man, he was a strong willed, kind and loving person who we were very proud of. There wasn't anything he wouldn't do to help someone out, even a perfect stranger. He often put his own needs and wishes aside to help others. He was always happy and outgoing; if someone was upset he would do anything he could to make them smile. Dryden, Collin, and his family were the center of his world. He had plans to enroll in the fall at MMI in Arizona for motorcycle mechanics. He was a blessing from God, whom we were allowed to have in our lives for a short time. His smile, the twinkle in his eyes and yes, even his constant pranks will be missed by many. His memories will live on in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved him.

His loving family includes: sons, Dryden Joseph Mortenson, Minot, and Collin Patrick Abernathey, Burlington; mother, Sandra K. Jensen, Bottineau; father, Wayde C. Abernathey, Minot; sisters, Samantha Gillstrap and her fiancé, Michael Larson, Ambre Gillstrap, Bottineau, and Annea Jensen, Bottineau; niece, Kiera Gillstrap, Bottineau; maternal grandparents, Donald and Shirley Ihli, Lansford; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.

Joseph was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Duane Abernathey, Sr., and paternal grandmother, Olive Beryl Pennington.

Funeral: Saturday, March 21, 2009, at 11:00 a.m. at Trinity Lutheran Church, Lansford.

Interment: Lansford Cemetery, Lansford, ND.

Visitation: Friday from Noon to 7 p.m. at Thompson-Larson Funeral Home, Minot.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are preferred to the Dryden Mortenson and Colin Abernathey Trust Fund in care of First Western Bank, Minot.

Officiant: Pastor Heather Brown

Music: Congregational Hymns
“Amazing Grace”
 “Old Rugged Cross”
 “Rock of Ages”
Linda Dean, Organist

Honorary Bearers: Joseph’s uncle, Glenn Ihli

Active Bearers: Duane Abernathey, Tony Abernathey,  Carl Abernathey, Jerry Ihli, 
Chase Abernathey,  Donald Ihli, Jr.

Following the funeral service, please join the family for a time of fellowship and lunch at the community center. The graveside service take place at a later date in the spring.

Our family would like to thank all of you for your many acts of kindness. Your thoughts and prayers are greatly appreciated during this difficult time. May God bless the memory of Joseph.


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